BMF if:

  • We share the same interests!!

  • You wanna give me reccs on something to read (pls I need something similar to 19 days or tamen de gushi)

  • Urrr uhh if you just wanna chat! (I might be a little awkward if it’s our first time talking but don’t mind that - this mostly applies to TikTok since that’s probably where I’ll get the most DMs)

Thin Ice:

  • NSO, PJSK, Class of ‘09 and similar chronically online fandoms (majority of you are INSUFFERABLE)

  • Comshippers (I don’t mind tropes like mortal x immortal (e.g. childe x zhongli) or god x ghost (hualian) but anything that enters illegal stuff like minor x adult/incest is a NO)

  • Weird people in general (I’ll probably just block you 💀😭)

  • Soukoku shippers (there’s an exception to oomf yk who you are)

DNI if:

  • The regular list obviously like proshippers, zios, homophobes, racists

  • Generally just people who I find unpleasant or irritating. I’ll block you as my boundary and I’d prefer if you don’t attempt to speak to me again

  • Under 13s 🫢 (unless it’s just mooting and we don’t actually speak in DMs)